John J. Flaherty, 81, Hays, died Saturday, January 22, 2022, at the Glen Carr House in Derby, Kansas.
He was born June 4, 1940, in Powers Lake, North Dakota, one of four children to John Henry “Jack” and Alice (Anderson) Flaherty. In 1958, he graduated from High School in Columbus, ND and enlisted in the U.S. Navy. He served until 1962 aboard the USS McDermut, a Fletcher-class destroyer, in locations throughout the Pacific. On June 8, 1968, he married Mary Meyeres in Hoisington, Kansas, and they later divorced but remained lifelong friends. On June 3, 2006, he married Judy A. (Polifka) Rohr in Pfeifer, Kansas. He was a part owner of a finance and collection agency, did maintenance for Pepperidge Farms in Chicago, and worked in the maintenance department at Fort Hays State University. He was a member of Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic Church, and the Hays VFW and American Legion. John loved the outdoors, spending time with family and friends at the lake, traveling, and going on family vacations. He enjoyed big Lincolns and Cadillacs, browsing for cars on various car lots, and his beloved Yorkie dog. John possessed a quick wit and sense of humor, ice cream and coffee were some of his favorite treats, and he loved being Gramps and spending time with his grandchildren.
Survivors include his wife Judy of Hays, two sons: Mike Flaherty and wife Angie of Derby, and John P. Flaherty of Lenexa, a daughter: Shelly Keller and husband Travis of Hays, a step son: Jeff Rohr and wife Tracy of Overland Park, a step daughter: Jackie Mosher and husband Alan of Overland Park, a sister: Mary Taylor of Naperville, Illinois, brother-in-law: Charles Dorwick of Milan, Indiana, grandchildren: Jordan Flaherty, Maddie Keller, Quinton Flaherty, Kaitlyn Flaherty, Camryn Flaherty, and Karlynn Flaherty, step grandchildren: Michelle McCormick and husband Justin, Jonathan Mosher and wife Kelly, Madison Klimas and husband Joel, Mason Rohr, and Makenna Rohr, step great grandchildren: Charlie McCormick, Eli McCormick, and Quinn Klimas, and numerous nieces and nephews.
He was preceded in death by his parents, a brother Dennis Flaherty and his wife Carol, a sister Peggy Dorwick, a brother-in-law James Taylor, and a grandson Tanner Starkey-Flaherty.
Mass of Christian Burial will be at 10:00 am on Friday, January 28, 2022, at Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic Church with Fr. Charles Polifka and Fr. Nick Parker officiating. Burial with military honors by the Hays VFW #9076 Honor Guard will follow in St. Joseph Cemetery. Visitation will be from 6:00 pm until 8:00 on Thursday and from 9:00 am until 9:45 on Friday, all at the Hays Memorial Chapel Funeral Home. A parish vigil and rosary will be at 7:00 pm on Thursday at the funeral home.
Memorials are suggested to the Hays VFW #9076 Honor Guard or to Hospice of HaysMed. Condolences and memories of John may be shared with the family at www.haysmemorial.com