By MIKE COURSON
Great Bend Post
"But did you die" is a famous line from Hangover II, a sequel to the 2009 surprise box office hit. But one Ellinwood family may not be laughing at either of the The Hangover movies for a while. The Maxwells spent hours stuck in the ice and snow on and around I-70, passing the time by watching the first Hangover over and over. Twenty-six hours after leaving Gardner just southwest of Overland Park, the family arrived safely at home Monday morning.
Greg and Becca Maxwell were coaching their daughter, Mette, and the rest of the Velocity Volleyball Club team in Gardner at the Heart of America regional qualifier. They knew the winter weather was coming but at 8:30 a.m., attempted to beat the weather and avoid getting stuck at the hotel. Everything was slow going before coming to a complete stop between Manhattan and Junction City at 11:45.
"Hundreds of cars and trucks were stranded," Becca said. "Just parked on interstate. It wasn’t just us. It was back to back cars and trucks and so many semis stranded. The truck in front of us was from a furniture company that guaranteed delivery no matter the weather, and his customers in Colorado wanted the furniture. The young gentleman behind us was headed to his military base, and we were a family just trying to get home after a volleyball tournament to get home for work on Monday. We were just lucky we were on the road and not stuck in the ditch in the snow."
Biological functions do not cease just because cars are backed up on interstate. By 1 p.m., that's becoming an issue for several members in the Maxwell vehicle.
"It’s freezing cold," said Becca. "I braved the elements to try going outside, but apparently, my insides were frozen, too—no luck. I went back to the truck, but now we realize we can’t keep the truck running. We had to conserve gas so we would run the truck for 10 minutes every hour to stay warm."
Now six hours into the trip and still not moving, Becca tried staying busy by editing photos but there was no cell service in the area. Greg, who grew up in Leadville, Colo., the highest-elevated city in the United States at 10,000 feet and an area that is no stranger to large snowfalls, could not listen to his beloved Denver Broncos. The girls were left without their social media accounts.
"For Greg to make the decision to drive in the snow and ice was like a Tuesday in Leadville," said Becca. "This was a normal, everyday occurrence in the Colorado area. Greg mentioned that Colorado definitely has the ability and the snowplows because this happens every weekend in Colorado. There's always a big storm. In Kansas, they were saying this was the 'storm of the decade.' I don't think we were prepared for a storm of this magnitude."
Bathroom problems persisted. By 3 p.m., Becca was considering crafting an adult diaper out of a roll of paper towels. Instead, she tried the going outside again only be be blasted by 30-mile-per-hour winds.
"Thankfully, we were behind a gigantic semi truck so it felt like you had your own private spot," Becca said. "I think everyone was getting out of their cars. You couldn't see much because of the blinding snow and wind and I don't think anyone stood out there a very long time. We just kind of minded our own business."
The Maxwells, traveling to and from a volleyball tournament, had accidentally packed a safety kit. The family devoured everything in the volleyball snack bag. With internet options limited, Mette remembered she had downloaded The Hangover and the family watched it for the first time.
"We were lucky to have a bag full with six bottles of water," said Becca. "We started to ration that and the gas, but when you have a volleyball bag full of beef jerky, oranges, bananas, crackers, and cheese, we were probably good to go for at least three days but we would have had to watch The Hangover more than just three times had we been there longer."
Seven hours after coming to a stop, the Maxwells were still stuck amongst hundreds of vehicles by 6 p.m. With nothing else to do, the family hit repeat on The Hangover. The irony of watching a movie that involved a travel mishap was not lost on them.
By 7 p.m., more than 11 hours after leaving Gardner, the Maxwells resigned to the fact that they would be sleeping in the truck. They made bunk beds out of blankets, suitcases, and jackets.
Sleep was tough in the crowded automobile and an unexpected knock on the window by a police officer was a welcome surprise at 8:40 p.m. The officer said the Maxwells could follow him out of the traffic if they felt comfortable driving their 4-wheel-drive truck on the ice.
That slow-moving journey lasted approximately an hour before coming to a halt near Chapman due to a jackknifed semi truck blocking both lanes. Fifteen minutes later, the journey resumed. The Maxwells took the first clear exit and made their way to a gas station where they were able to purchase hot food before getting back on the road. Greg was trying to stay behind a semi driver he trusted.
"Another semi driver had just passed us," Becca said. "Greg didn't think that looked good and that truck ended up taking out a small vehicle. We saw him hit their vehicle, take off the bumper off the back of the car and their mirror. He just kept going because he couldn't stop. The smaller cars, if you weren't in far enough, the semi trucks were still trying to go because there was no stopping."
By 10:30, the Maxwells were stuck again. Interstate plowing had stopped and another plow was stuck in a nearby ditch. Mya approached two vehicles on an exit to ask if they could move over to allow room for the Maxwell vehicle to reach a nearby Love's gas station with the intent of staying the night there.
"Morale was not good," Becca said. People were cranky. The was very little camaraderie as the night got longer. We had made calls for hotels in Junction City and Abilene but you couldn’t get to them. Roads were impassable in town and the hotel employees and gas station workers I talked to had to walk into work. One employee said her car was snowed in at the gas station so she was just staying there for two days and most likely won’t get home for another day."
It took an hour to get to the Love's near Abilene. The family hand-shoveled space near the gas station where they were able to park and sleep.
"Maybe knowing you are steps from a bathroom and coffee helps," said Becca. "And, honestly, it was much warmer off interstate with a little block from the straight winds and blowing snow."
Just after midnight, the clan journeyed inside the gas station for one last restroom break. Once back in the vehicle, they decided on one more play of The Hangover. With gas options now available, they were also able to run the truck for heat.
With little to no sleep, by 6:15 a.m., 22 hours after leaving the original hotel, the Maxwells could see the nearby offramp is cleared, meaning traffic was likely again allowed on I-70. More than four hours later, the family finally arrived in Ellinwood, 26 hours after the trip began.
Becca said the trip was a learning experience that made her family extra grateful for the road workers and law enforcement who tried to keep roads open and assisted those who needed it.
"The semi trucks rule the road," she said. "There are so many of them it is really difficult to shut down interstate. There were clearly not enough stops and cleared space for all of them to just stop driving and get off the road. That was not possible. They had to park on interstate. I don’t know where else they could have gone."
Still, the decision was not an easy when she the Maxwells made the decision to drive home. The volleyball tournament was a large one with teams spending a lot of money to attend. Rules dictate how and when teams can drop out of tournaments and what happens to those teams if they break the rules.
"Tournaments are difficult to reschedule and I understand the need to not cancel because it’s very difficult to make things up with how busy families are," Becca said. "It was a significant cost for us to play in that tournament, so there is a financial burden as well."
The storm ended up dropping nearly six inches of snow around Gardner, but was part of a larger storm that dumped up to 18 inches of snow in the region. The official measurement at Kansas City International Airport was 11 inches, marking the fourth-largest single-day snowfall total in Kansas City history.
Becca said the biggest lesson learned was for drivers to take heed of precautions and stay off the road when officials advise.
Several serious accidents were reported across northeast and north central Kansas Saturday through Monday. On Monday afternoon, a man was killed at the gas station near the I-70 and K-156 junction north of Ellsworth. The man was attempted to help a semi truck navigate a snow-covered parking lot when he was ran over by the truck.